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Taking the Hands On Challenge

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Gospel Rejected

Despite closed hearts, workers continue to share the Truth

By Susie Rain

The Chinese noodle shop didn’t look like much, just some tables and chairs, but it was clean and cheap. The family who owned it offered a bowl of noodles for less than $1.

The restaurant quickly became a lunchtime favorite of Hands On workers Ashley Benson and Mandi Mapes. It was just outside their apartment building and their five new friends always took time to help them practice their Mandarin.

When we said that Jesus is God’s Son, they laughed at us. They heard a little more, then they got up and left!Ashley Benson, Hands On worker

The Americans teased back-and-forth with the family as they ate. At some point during the meal, however, their hearts always ached for this family. Signs all around them were a constant reminder of the differences in faith between them and their friends.

“We were confronted with lostness every single day. That bothered me,” Benson said about their six-months working in China with the International Mission Board’s Hands On program. “In America, there are lost people but it’s not in your face. These people were visible to us and they are our friends.”

Ironically, just before moving to China their home church, The Church at Brookhills, Birmingham, Ala., began praying for East Asia. Little did Benson and Mapes know God had plans for them to become friends with the exact people prayed for by their church family. They moved to China to work with English-speaking university students. However, they saw this family more than anyone because of the proximity to their apartment. They hung out at the noodle shop with their guitars and shared American chocolate from home.

After months of building a relationship, Benson and Mapes decided it was finally time to share their faith beyond the simple sentence, “I am a Christian.” They memorized and practiced the Gospel presentation in Mandarin over and over, praying for God’s guidance.

Sliding into the initial conversation about Jesus was easy. It was Easter and the family often talked about “American culture” with the young women. As they explained the meaning behind Easter, their friends looked at them with disdain.

“When we said that Jesus is God’s Son, they laughed at us,” Benson said. “They heard a little more, then they got up and left!

“I was really surprised that they just walked away,” Benson continued. “We tried to give them a Bible, but they wouldn’t accept it.”

The Hands On workers took the rejection in stride but it was obvious there was a strain in the relationship. Benson said they felt compelled to rebuild the friendship, noting that Jesus was rejected. The thought of their friends not joining them in heaven caused them to press forward, even though it was hard.

They continued to eat at the noodle shop, practicing their Mandarin. They brought gifts of appreciation. They also continued praying for their friends. Eventually, the friendship was restored at an even stronger level. At every opportunity they managed to share parts of their personal testimonies, until one day, the family accepted a Bible as a gift.

“We ask you to pray for them. Out of everyone we’ve shared with, our hearts have been stirred the most for this family. We love them and are deeply burdened for them,” Benson said. “There are days it is hard to keep walking from them to our apartment when I know they are not destined for heaven.

“Through our Hands On experience, an unreached people group became real people to us — people we want to see become believers,” Benson added. “This experience changed me so much. It’s not always an easy task to share the Gospel. When we are rejected, we see Christ’s great sacrifice more clearly.”

 
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posted by Carla Lovorn 27 Sep 2011

Our pastor is working to identify the unreached people group that our church should reach out to with the Good News of Christ. In the meantime, I teach an older ladies’ Sunday school class and am looking for ways to ignite our hearts and to stir up godly compassion for unreached people so that we can pray more effectually for God’s guidance toward the people He has for us to minister to. I have received IMB’s East Asian emails for several years and they never fail to move my heart for the people in East Asia. Ashley and Mandi’s story is no exception. I plan to share their story in our class. Hoping to find a way to share the video too.

posted by Tina Ferguson 05 Sep 2011

I am encouraged to read of these young women and their willingness to go and to put their careers ‘on hold.’

Thanks for sharing this story.

One comment about the phrase “music is a universal language”. These links point to an article that may challenge our thinking with this common phrase.
Part 1 http://conversation.lausanne.org/en/conversations/detail/10440
Part 2 http://conversation.lausanne.org/en/conversations/detail/10568
Part 3 http://conversation.lausanne.org/en/conversations/detail/10635